We are longing for rain here and we British are not accustomed to making such statements about the weather, on the contrary we’re usually characterised by carrying our umbrellas everywhere and complaining about it being too wet. It has however been so very hot and dry here for the last month and with no rain in the forecast for the next few weeks we are longing for a torrential downpour, though even a light shower would be most welcome. The land is utterly parched and out in the woods the leaves have crisped, turned yellow and fallen, the blackberries are already ripening in the hedgerows and acorns are already well on the way to dropping – as though autumn has already arrived. My pictures in the previous post of the countryside in June now prompt me to feel nostalgic for the green and lush growth that we had throughout the Spring. Everything is now baked dry, bleached out and wizened by the sun and the seasons seem to be all out of kilter. Though on a positive note there have been some amazing sunsets recently.

We’re now half way through Toby’s long summer break from college and we have fallen into a comfortable routine. In the mornings he chooses to stay in bed with his breakfast on a tray and his musical books and duplo to play with. Once he decides to get up he and I head off for a 2-3 mile walk and a picnic lunch. It’s lovely spending time with him outdoors – he loves being outside and is usually at his best, especially when we have a quiet walk and don’t encounter many people or dogs. It’s a nice time together and we’ve mainly walked near to lakes and rivers where it’s a still green and is a little cooler.

I had a couple of objectives to work on with him this summer and those are going well. Firstly I wanted to get him used to carrying his own rucksack with his snack and water bottle inside, that way my backpack isn’t as laden and heavy and I don’t get so worn out at the end of our walks. That has gone really well and he’s now completely used to carrying his own supplies in his backpack – something I’ll be so grateful for in the winter when he’ll also be able to carrying the layers of clothing that he always removes on our winter walks.

My second objective is to get him to choose when to take off his ear defenders and hat without needing to be prompted. He always wears them whenever we go out anywhere as they help him cope with sensory overload, which he frequently struggles with and which often freezes him to the spot or results in a meltdown. When it is quiet and calm (with no barking dogs or human noise) he is relaxed enough to do without them and it’s nice to see him coping without them for at least part of our daily walks.

Thirdly I’m trying to get him used to me stopping to take pictures of things. This is something that has always distressed him and so up to now it’s something I’ve not often done. But being able to take pictures will make our walks more fulfilling and enjoyable for me and so with my eye on future life after college when he’ll be my constant walking companion I’ve decided to start what will probably be a long process, so far with mixed results, though as you can see I have managed to get a few pictures on our recent walks.

On the knitting front there’s not much to show, my fingers get all fat and fumbly in the hot weather but in between looking after Toby’s every need I am slowly working on small versions of some of my animal patterns and also on some sweaters, coats and cardis for the smaller 7 inch sized animals. Once Toby is back into his term time routine in September I’ll be free to step up the pace on these patterns and will keep you posted here.

Hopefully see you again soonish, ’til then be well and happy x