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Home comforts

It was the school half term break here last week and we had a fun time keeping Toby active and busy: lots of wood walks, tandem trike rides, swimming and rides on the mini steam train that he loves. Alongside our outdoor adventures there was also a little time for some indoor comforts: a couple of lazy lie-ins with knitting and tea in bed, quiet evenings by the fire and some baking of raspberry and white chocolate muffins – just the thing to come home to when you’ve had an afternoon in the breezy autumn woods ๐Ÿ™‚

The shawl above is being knitted from Elizabeth Doherty’s ‘Rose Gold’ pattern in sublimely soft ‘Nomad’ Yak DK yarn from The Wool Barn I’m hoping to finish off the lovely and unusual side-joined border this week and then it will need blocking (my least favourite part of handknitting) but with any luck I’ll have it snuggled around my neck for our next wood walk, as woolly armour against those cool and intrusive autumn breezes.

I’m also busy with pattern writing, but more of that another time – for now I’ll leave you with some of the pictures I’ve taken over the last 2 months of the fox that has been regularly visiting our garden since early spring, we’ve nicknamed her Kit (from kitsune) …

countryside · general stuff · in the woods · wildlife

An autumn fungi walk

Firstly thank you all so very much for your kind and thoughtful comments, emails and direct messages wishing Toby a happy birthday. He had a lovely afternoon full of the simple pleasures that make him happiest; balloons, cake, lego, sensory toys, curry for dinner, salted caramel ice-cream for pudding and a ‘disco’ in the evening – he likes dancing by himself with the lights off and the disco ball on. I popped a couple of pictures of him taken on his birthday at the end of the previous post.

Talking of simple pleasures, I indulged in one of my favourites earlier this week when I took myself off for an autumn wood walk. Because we’ve had a lot of rain here recently I thought that it might be a good year for fungi and I was not disappointed.ย  I have never seen quite so many different types out in the woods and spent a very happy 3 hours wandering around with my camera and getting wet, muddy knees at Danemead wood, Broxbourne common and Cowheath wood. There’s a mix of habitats there: deciduous woodland with oaks and hornbeams; a large area of pine woods and small areas of heathland and it was very peaceful with just the sounds of birdsong and the breeze ruffling the treetops and persuading the dying leaves from the branches.

I tried to name all the different funghi but have given up because it’s so hard to identify most of them. A few though are easy – like the yellow staghorn which looks like a fairy campfire glowing in the undergrowth; the false deathcap that has a weird almost luminous greenish glow and the iconic fairytale fly agaric with it’s white spotted bright red cap. Each is beautiful in their own unique way, even though some are very poisonous!

There are also some great pictures I’d like to show you of the fox, who is still a regular garden visitor, but I think with all of these woodland pictures I’ve run out of space here today, so I’ll save those for next time. Have a great weekend and if you get time please leave me a comment below and let me know what seasonal delights you’re enjoying in your part of the world.

autism · general stuff

Eighteen

He may not be able to speak a word, dress himself, understand dangers or resist custard creams.

He may be awake each and every night, badly bite himself when stressed, strip all the beds 5 times a day and put everything he finds on the floor in his mouth.

He may need constant, vigilant supervision just to keep him safe and, due to the severity of his autism, will never be able to live independently, build a career or find a partner to love,

but,

He is one of the worlds truly innocent and gentle souls, free from malice, free from duplicity and wholly loveable and it is my greatest privilege to be his protector, his advocate and his mum,

Happy 18th birthday sweet Toby

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Thank you all so very much for your kind and thoughtful comments, emails and direct messages wishing Toby a happy birthday. He had a lovely afternoon full of the simple pleasures that make him happiest; balloons, cake, lego, sensory toys, curry for dinner, salted caramel ice-cream for pudding and a ‘disco’ in the evening – he likes dancing by himself with the lights off and the disco ball on!

Thank you again for all of your kind good wishes x